“I’m not sure – do not overtake” – this rule is suitable for many situations. But for employment such installation is strictly not necessary. Even if you do not believe you still need to go for an interview and try to get the desired position, struggling to hide quite natural fear and excitement. Unfortunately, often, even when it does not give your uncertainty, it still despicable “crawls” out in the facial expressions and gestures.
However, all kinds of nervous movements can irreversibly damage the interviewer the impression even on the most qualified professionals. Therefore, the applicant should be closely monitored and are always controlled, making his right hand, and that – left.
1. Handles playful
One young man during the interview twisted a button on his shirt. Very fascinating spectacle. I even listened with half an ear: much more than I was the question: tear off or not? Although most such “disease” occurs in girls: one earring pulls, the other – a pendant on a chain. And once soiskatelnits twisted-twisted kulonchik fingers, and then put in your mouth – probably hungry.
Many applicants nervously “torturing” a variety of items: pens, pencils, sheets of paper, their own documents … This happens to a lot of incidents. One handle shattered to pieces, and he forgot about the conversation, rushed her to collect. Another almost its entire notebook torn to shreds.
3. Snake habit
Sticking out tongue – a sign of special concentration and stress. Inspired by some laborious occupation is doing a lot of kids, and some adults sometimes do not control themselves. Of course, do not worry. But when a candidate to fill the form, the language gets almost to the ear, left a bad impression.
Once I came for an interview is a very decent man, claiming to be a senior management position. When we started talking, I suddenly felt a strange shiver, even scared at first: whether inside me some terrible premonition awoke, whether an earthquake begins. Then he looked closer, and this is my partner under the table leg shaking, as if he had a psychiatrist at the reception on the knee hammer often-often knocks. No, I think I’ll look for, perhaps, less nervous applicant “.
5. Do not immediately entered
several times across a candidate who was left of their own nose. They scratched him, poked, or just constantly fiddling. Of course, this is no reason to deny a person skilled in the post. But if you have a choice …
6. Gyulchataj, open face
there are people who have an annoying manner – in conversation to keep your hands near the mouth. First, it distorts speech. Second, psychologists believe that this habit may be indicative of the propensity to lie.
7. Shiloh leave home
One man during an interview for a second he could not sit still in his chair. Their answers, he accompanied a variety of gestures: it leaned too far forward, leaning back sharply, just fidgeted in his chair, as if he had pain in one place. I prefer it less mobile candidate.
Some people from the excitement begin to bite his nails. Agree, looks awful. One candidate for an engineering position struck me that he did “manicure” methodically, nail for nail, so wanted to tell him to do it professionally, in the cabin. Of course, out loud, I did not say anything and just said goodbye to the unfortunate competitor.
9. Our hands are not for boredom
Some people from the excitement do not know what to do with their hands. So start their upper extremities to live their own lives. Someone they now and then “fly” in different directions, and one candidate is constantly scratching various parts of his body. Say, well, who needs a staff member if you never know what to expect from him in the next moment ?!
10. Not at
once came to a nice lady applying for the post of secretary, which was a smart mop of red hair. And it permanently or plucking their hands, or shook his head, as in television advertising shampoo. I felt that this habit is not valid for the Secretary.